Man's Greatest Moment of Clarity The greatest moment of clarity for a man is post-orgasm. It is during these times that a man can and should do his thinking. A post-coitus decision is a decision untainted by the thoughts which plague him all day, every day - the thoughts of midrifts and necklines, brief encounters and coded messages, the empty experiences he nobly shuns, but secretly covets, the what-ifs. They preoccupy his mind, skew his perspective, and muddle his reasoning.